Unless you are an academic professional, you may have never
heard the term social emotional learning before, but it’s a concept that’s
critical to your child’s well-being.
What is social emotional learning? According to the American
Institutes for Research, it is “the process through which we learn to recognize
and manage emotions, care about others, make good decisions, behave ethically
and responsibly, develop positive relationships, and avoid negative behaviors.
It is the process through which students enhance their ability to integrate
thinking, feeling and behaving in order to achieve important life tasks.”
Recognizing and building on the strengths and assets of
children and youth and promoting social and emotional learning are essential to
their success both academically and in life. Teens who feel connected are less
likely to engage in high-risk behaviors such as self-harming, violence, early
sexual activity, disordered eating or suicidal ideation, for example.
Nevertheless, this is a tricky goal to reach in schools
where teaching to the test is so prevalent. School officials must reframe their
thinking that there is only room for either
social emotional learning or academic learning. Either-or thinking must be replaced by a both-and commitment.
Following is a composite account of conversations that I had
with school social workers who work in urban, suburban and rural settings.
Ted is one of three social workers in an inner-city middle
school where there are more than 1,500 students in grades 6, 7 and 8. The
school day runs from 7:50 a.m. to 2:20 p.m. There are six 55-minute periods per
day and a 30-minute lunch break. According to Ted, faculty and administrators
are consumed with prepping students for standardized testing. Among the
responsibilities of the social workers is to schedule and monitor standardized
tests for weeks at a time. Ted described this aspect of his job as “crowd
control.”
When I asked him what the biggest obstacle was, he said,
“teaching to the test.”
“These days teachers are being evaluated on their students’
test scores and schools are trying to align curricula to the tests, which
leaves little flexibility for what can happen in or outside the classroom,” he
said. “Teachers are increasingly unwilling to let kids leave class for
alternative activities like groups that might address career exploration, grief
or anger management—you know, all things that can have a really positive impact
on a student’s academic achievement.”
Ted has not given up. He said that we need to educate
teachers, administrators, parents and school board members that “kids under
stress, kids who were traumatized or living in difficult life situations, need
to have social and emotional learning as a part of their school experience. Working
with kids in groups is an important part of that learning. The adults in
schools need to know that good groups that focus on social emotional learning
can positively affect learning and healthy classroom environments.”
One thing that Ted has tried that has gotten some traction
is meeting with the teachers themselves in groups. “I formed a monthly group for teachers who are
interested in learning more about working with kids who are depressed or who
exhibit self-harming behaviors. But, mostly, teachers ask for help
individually, and it is usually crisis-oriented.”
School personnel need to be reminded of what some kids
experience on a day-to-day basis and what the impact will be if social
emotional learning is taken out of the school equation. Here’s how one
16-year-old student described his troubles.
“I was getting good grades till my mom’s boyfriend moved in
and started beating us. That’s when the problems started. Then the school
started complaining about my behavior. I was stressed out. I would be sitting
in class trying to concentrate but couldn’t. Too many things were running
through my head. I’d be sitting there with all of these thoughts that just
don’t go away.”
Virtually everyone who works in a school can relate to this
and can come up with their own compelling illustrations of kids under chronic
stress. Telling their stories is important in demonstrating that standardized
test preparation alone will not guarantee academic success or behavioral
compliance. It’s time to recognize the crucial nature of social emotional
learning in the schools so our children are seen as whole human beings and not
testing machines.
Bio: Andrew
Malekoff is the Executive Director of North Shore Child & Family Guidance
Center, which provides comprehensive mental health services for
children from birth through 24 and their families. To find out more, visit www.northshorechildguidance.org.
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